Wedding invitations, sent on WhatsApp
One wedding invitation.
Every event, tracked separately.
For weddings that last more than a day. Each guest sees only the events you ask them to, and answers for each one, so you know who is coming to the welcome party, the traditional wedding, the church and the reception.
Your first 50 guests are free. No payment details needed.
Abi & Tobi
Together with their families, invite you to celebrate
11 to 13 December 2026
London
Until the traditional engagement
The days
Friday 11 December · 1:00 PM
Traditional Engagement
The Grand Hall, London
Saturday 12 December · 11:00 AM
Wedding Ceremony
St Mary's Church, London
Sunday 13 December · 6:00 PM
Evening Reception
The Orangery, Kensington
- 1The Grand HallFri · Traditional Engagement
- 2St Mary's ChurchSat · Wedding Ceremony
- 3The OrangerySun · Evening Reception
How we met
We met at a friend's birthday in Peckham in 2019 and argued about jollof for an hour. Neither of us won, and we have not stopped talking since.
Six years, two flats and one very patient mother later, we would love you there when we make it official.
The wedding party
Getting there
By train
Bond Street and Paddington are both ten minutes from the hall. From Heathrow, the Elizabeth line is quickest.
See it on the map ↗Flying in
Heathrow is closest, about forty minutes by car. Gatwick works too, with the Express into Victoria.
See it on the map ↗Driving and parking
There is a car park on Park Lane, a short walk away. The Orangery has none of its own, so take a taxi on Sunday.
See it on the map ↗Where to stay
The rooms we have held
The Kensington Hotel
Ten minutes from the reception. Quote ABITOBI when you book.
Book a room ↗A hotel nearby
The Pelham
A little quieter, a short walk from South Kensington, and lovely for brunch.
Open their website ↗What to wear
Aso-ebi on Friday, in burgundy and gold. Soft pastels for the church, and black tie on Sunday, or whatever you can dance in.
Questions
- Can I bring someone?
- Your invitation names everyone it covers. If it says plus one, bring whoever you like.
- Are children invited?
- Very welcome on Friday and at the church. The reception on Sunday is for the grown-ups.
- Can I take photographs?
- Please keep phones away during the vows. After that, snap away and send them to us.
Gifts
Your presence is the gift. If you would like to do something more, our list is here.
Our gift list ↗Thank you for the fittings, the prayers, the long journeys and the jollof debates. We cannot wait to celebrate with every one of you. See you on the dance floor.
Abi & Tobi
Will you be joining us?
Let us know for each day you are invited to. It takes a moment, and you can change your answer later.
Replying as Olivia Bankole
Not you?
- Traditional EngagementFri 11 Dec · 1:00 PM
- Wedding CeremonySat 12 Dec · 11:00 AM
- Evening ReceptionSun 13 Dec · 6:00 PM
Saved. You can change this any time.
Sent directly to guests on WhatsApp or iMessage.
Choose a scene
Envelopes
Your guests tap the envelope, the wax seal lifts, and a short scene plays before the invitation opens.
- Nothing for guests to installGuests open the invitation directly from chat
- Sent from your own WhatsApp or iMessageSo it comes from your number, and guests know it's you
- You pay onceFree to your first 50 guests, then one payment
- One list for you and your suppliersReplies and dietary notes in one place, ready to send to caterers and venues
How it works
You send them from your own phone, and we keep count of the replies.
Each one goes from your own WhatsApp or iMessage, already written, so guests get it from you and reply in the chat they already have with you.
Why not send them automatically?
An automatic invitation comes from a business number your guests have never seen. It reads like marketing, it can land in spam, and a guest who replies reaches nobody.
Yours arrives in the chat you already share, under your name, and every reply comes straight back to you. Each message is written and addressed before your WhatsApp opens, so all that is left is to press send.
Real screens from Our Guest List, with sample guests.
The look
What your guests see in WhatsApp. Pick a look.
Day by day
Not everyone is invited to everything.
Most invitation sites ask one question: are you coming? Over three days you need an answer for each day, because Saturday's caterer only wants Saturday's number. Add two events, or ten.
An example celebration
Traditional wedding
Family-side guest list, with its own venue, its own time and its own dress code on the invite.18422Ceremony
Smaller, invite-only list. Only the guests you tick for this event ever see it on their invite.968Reception
Full guest list, dietary notes collected when guests reply, and a headcount you can send straight to your caterer.31041What it costs
You pay once, for the whole wedding.
Free
For up to 50 guests and 2 events: invitations, replies and a website made for you.
No payment details needed, and it stays free for good.
What's included
- Up to 50 guests
- A website made for you
- Replies for up to 2 events
- A spreadsheet of guests and dietary notes for your caterer
- WhatsApp and iMessage invitation cards
- An 8-second scene that plays as the envelope opens
- Ready-made wax seals
Tailored
£65
For a bigger celebration that looks like yours: your photo on the card, your initials in the wax.
One-off payment, for one celebration.
What's included
Everything in Free, and
- Your own photo on the invitation card
- A wax seal with your initials
- Access to the full theme collection
- Build your own website: your words, your sections, your design
- Up to 400 guests
- Replies for every event, however many
- Invite a planner or family to help run it
- Plus a page of numbers for each event in that spreadsheet
Bespoke
£195
For a celebration we make with you, from the theme to the film.
One-off payment. We make it with you.
What's included
Everything in Tailored, and
- Unlimited guests
- A custom invitation theme designed for you
- Your own web address, in your name
- A custom 8-second scene, made just for you
- A drawing of each of your venues
- A wax seal made for you
- A call with us to get you set up
- Priority support
One payment, the same however long your guest list is, and nothing to post. The price on the card is all you pay.
Still costing it up with a printer?
- Printing and postage
- over £220
- Our Guest List
- £65
- Tailored, paid once
- You save
- at least £155
Cards, envelopes and postage for 150 invitations, two guests to a household.
See the full workings
Before you decide
What if some guests don't have WhatsApp?
Send theirs another way. Every invitation can also go by iMessage from an iPhone, iPad or Mac, and every guest has a personal link you can copy into a text, an email or anywhere else. However it travels, it opens the same invitation, and their reply lands on your list.
Can we both work on the same list?
Yes, on the Tailored and Bespoke packages. Invite a partner, a planner or family, and each of you signs in with your own email to the same list, replies and all. On Free, the list has one sign-in.
How are plus-ones and families handled?
A family or a couple shares one invitation: one message to the household, and whoever opens it answers for everyone, event by event. For a plus-one, set how many people a guest can bring and they tell you how many are coming. Your numbers count heads, not invitations.
Can I send dietary notes straight to the caterer?
Yes, on every package. Guests add a note for each person when they reply, and one button downloads your list as an Excel spreadsheet with dietary needs in a column of their own, ready to forward. The Tailored and Bespoke packages add a page of numbers for each event.
More questions, about sending, privacy and refunds: read them all
For planners
All your clients' celebrations, in one account.
Run all your clients' weddings from one account, a tap apart, and send each event's numbers to caterers and venues.
The numbers your caterer will ask for
A spreadsheet of everyone's answer to each event, totals at the top, and the dietary notes on a page of their own for the caterer.
What the download gives you4
- Every event shows who has said yes, and how many it could reach if everyone still to reply comes
- Dietary notes on a separate page, with no phone numbers on it
- Guests say how many are coming, wherever you have allowed a plus-one or family
- Pick one event or one group and download just those people
The spreadsheet
An example list · 5 guests
Who is coming, event by event
3 of the 5 guests have a note